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Golfing Like a Pro – Trying Golf for the First Time in my Life

Let’s play that golf – my first time golfing

Worried about your first time golfing? I was!

Golf has always been a mystery to me. It’s a game that seemed inaccessible when I was growing up. You needed clubs, balls, special clothing and then you had to pay the course fees too.

That’s a lot of cash to spend especially when you’re pretty poor. It seemed so much easier just to buy a basketball and go to a court. Hell, you could even go to the court and use someone else’s basketball.

That meant that in my 35 years on this earth, I have never played golf. In truth, I’ve never really swung a real club. I do have some putting experience as I’ve played mini-golf. Also, I did go to the driving range once with a friend in College. I remember being bad. That’s the extent of my golf prowess.

Naturally, when my co-workers sent an email out asking if anyone was up for a golf scramble, I said sure, why not. It’d be my first time golfing but how bad could it be?

OK, maybe I wasn’t as open to it as that. However, I figured if other people on my team wanted to do it, I’d be in too. After all, we had a ton of golf newbies so if I was ever going to learn to play golf, this would be the perfect time.

It turned out that everyone wanted to do it so I was in too!

The best thing and what made it work is that a few of the golfers had extra clubs and balls they provided those who wouldn’t. We’d have to cover the course fee of $40 but that wasn’t too bad given I’d get to spend time with my team and learn a new game. Plus, we’d get to ditch work at noon too.

One of the things I’ve wanted to do more this year is try new things. I’m getting closer to a point in my life where I may have a lot more free time. It’s probably at least a decade away but it’s worth thinking about! That means I’ll need to find a few new hobbies to fill my time.

Who knows, maybe golf would be one of those things! Even if it’s not, at least I’d get to drive that cool golf cart.

Before we even got out there, I learned a few things from the people that played golf.

First, there’s a dress code and you can’t just wear a t-shirt and some jean shorts.

You apparently had to wear a polo along with some khakis. What madness! People were surprised that I didn’t actually wear a polo but such is my wardrobe. It’s 100% t-shirts and dress shirts and 0% polo. That meant I had to make a quick trip to Dick’s to pick up an $11 polo on sale. I also picked up a hat while I was there to shield myself from the sun. Yes, I also did not already own a baseball cap.

I also spent a few minutes on youtube watching a video about a swing. These dudes definitely made it seem easy.

We set up teams for the golf scramble to include one regular golfer to carry the load. There were three regular golfers and four teams so our team ended up being without one. We did get a semi-regular golfer in there but we’d likely be lagging behind a bit.

The good golfers were needed to keep the pace of play moving. Otherwise, the newbies among us would be out there for 35 minutes on hole #1 even if it’s a golf scramble.

If you’re not familiar with a golf scramble, the rules are pretty simple.

You make a team then each person on the team takes a tee shot. After that, you decide which shot is the best and everyone moves their ball over to that spot and shoots from there. That continues until you make it into the hole.

This was perfect for me and all the other beginners since it takes 100% of the pressure off from any individual. The shots you take don’t matter that much since you’ll be taking your next shot based on the best shot taken. As long as one person has a decent hit then you’re good to go!

We had our four teams. Ours was the worst on paper but it didn’t matter. We were going to do great!

We all left work early, met up at the golf course in our polos, grabbed our clubs and golf carts and headed out.

The Front Nine

One of the good things about the scramble is that it keeps the pace moving. There were teams behind us so we didn’t want to dawdle. The scramble made that possible due the lack of experience on our teams.

I got some tips on my golf swing then proceeded to be absolutely terrible at driving.

I hit the ball almost every time which was nice but it almost always was a partial hit. That meant the ball left the tee but landed pretty close and rolled a bit. Sometimes, I missed but I got up and tried again.

The swing felt awkward especially when it came to the driver. I did find the mid range game with the irons and especially the wedge a lot more forgiving.

I don’t believe we ever used my drive as the “good” shot to play off of but we did use my wedge shots and puts a few times.

I’m not sure if I’m using any of these terms correctly but hopefully I am. We had a rough start going +1 and +2 on the first two holes before getting par on the 3rd.

Once we got on the green, that’s where my skills came into play. I actually sunk a few puts from a good distance away. We had some trouble as a team in the middle with a few +3 holes but gathered up with two pars near the end.

I was definitely the worst person on our team. However, I was pretty happy to actually contribute as we probably used a good 15% of my shots throughout the first 9 holes.

That was actually more than I expected!

It was more fun that I thought I’d have and driving the cart around was a nice bonus since it kept the game moving. There were a few people walking the course but that seemed rough especially since we had to spend a good portion of your time driving left then right to pick up my random balls that went into random directions.

There was a team that we let play through since our 7 shot holes put us a bit behind.

The Back Nine

We skipped the first hole here(10th overall) to catch up with our other teams.

They were playing at a faster pace than us since we were less experienced.

There was nothing exceptional about the first few holes although were were all definitely starting to get better. Don’t get me wrong, overall, we were all still pretty terrible but things seem to hum along better. One of us would normally hit a decent shot that set us up well for the next one.

There still wasn’t much consistency with my game or anyone else’s game but as a team, we were starting to gel. We all had some strong points and some weak points and made it work.

I also started to see why people generally come back to golf even if they have a rough start as most probably do.

We were maybe five holes into the back nine when I had a “pretty nice” drive and it felt good. It wasn’t really a good drive nor did we use it BUT it went pretty damn far. I actually made solid contact with the ball and saw it fly far far into the woods to our right. Sure, the ball was gone forever but it had distance. Baby, I was improving.

On that same hole, I also had probably the best shot any of us had that day. At least, my co-workers said so so I didn’t disagree with them. We were off the fairway and to the right of the green with a bunch of trees in the way blocking the direct path to the green.

Everyone shot around to the left to get us back to the green and set us up for the next shot.

I walked up, looked up at the trees ahead of us, and popped a shot up and right in the middle of two trees that landed in front of the green. The ball had distance, height and was aimed perfectly. I don’t know how I did it. We still went +1 on that hole but would have likely been +3 otherwise with where the other shots went.

Golf was starting to make sense to me. There was that feeling of accomplishment that came with hitting a good shot. For me, it was rare that I hit something well so when I did, it felt nice.

You were hanging out with friends, driving a golf cart around in beautiful weather and improving at something that takes skill.

Plus, it was a sport I could partake in even with my terrible conditioning. My wrists and arms hurt a little bit, no doubt due to poor swinging form, but beyond that, I felt pretty good.

On the last hole, I hit another decent drive that got distance and went straight into the water to the right of us. Once we landed on the very edge of the green, I hit a long putt that was just a bit left of the hole. Since we were using my shot, I took the first put and drained it to finish my day.

Our final score? +22!

golf scramble

We finished with a +11 on both ends and while we didn’t have anything better than a +1 on the back nine, it felt better like our play improved there. I really contributed more on the back end and we didn’t have any messy +3 holes like we did on the front nine.

The other teams? They all finished at +2 so much, much better than us. I guess it helps to have a regular golfer on their team. Apparently, the best guy on our team generally shoots in the 110-115 range so at least we helped improved on that!

I don’t really know if our score was good or bad. What I know is that it was pretty fun. It was also rather tiring. Spending the entire day out in the sun really takes it out of you.

Is golf the game for me? I enjoyed it. Maybe, I’ll go to the driving range and practice. I definitely need to improve my swing before I get out there again. Still, I doubt I’ll be buying my own clubs anytime soon.

The scramble was a lot of fun but I’d probably hate doing a regular round because my golf game is pretty pretty bad right now. I’d hit a good shot here and there but most of my shots were downright terrible.

I’ll definitely say yes if we ever do another golf scramble at work. However, I’m not at a point where I want to invest in a set of clubs, golf balls and more polos.

Plus, you’ve got to add the cost of actually playing a game on a course. The $40 deal we did was a mid-day deal. During weekends and after work, the price is near $60 plus the cart rental fee. And this is a pretty cheap course in this area.

That’s a lot of scratch to shell out to play golf. On top of that a lot of people were drinking out there and perhaps that’s part of the allure. You go out there, have some fun with friends and drink a bit.

I can definitely see why people like it now. It’s low impact and low stress. However, that’s part of what keeps you interested because even when you’re bad, there’s that one shot you make that makes you think, oh hey, that felt pretty good. I should do more of that.

Unfortunately, right now, instead of doing more of that, I’m at a spot where I do more of everything bad.

First time golfing


    • TimeintheMarket

      I’m definitely pretty terrible and I likely won’t get into it too much right now. Maybe play once a year with work mates and when I’m ready to retire, I’ll only be slightly terrible.

  • Simple Money Man

    It sounds like you had a good time and learned a whole lot on the first go! I’ve only played mini-golf and thought that a bigger version of this may not be for me. I may try it out one day to scratch it off of things I’ve done. 🙂

    • TimeintheMarket

      It’s definitely a fun time although I highly recommend a scramble and going with at least one person who’s decent.

  • Pete

    It’s always fun to hear how people get introduced to golf. I have been playing my whole life, so it is a unique perspective.

    I hope you continue to learn more about the game and even take a few lessons. So much in the golf swing is actually counter-intuitive so having an instructor help you is invaluable. Once you can hit the ball consistently (not even necessarily well, but just consistently) the game becomes so much more enjoyable. But for many it can be difficult to get over that initial learning curve.

    Best of luck!

    • TimeintheMarket

      Yea I’ve heard that taking some lessons is very important. I may have to give that a try before I really get into it. It’s probably better to get a good swing right off the bat than have terrible form and get an injury.

  • Amy @ LifeZemplified

    I love golf for many of the reasons you stated. Especially being outside in the company of friends in beautiful surroundings having fun. I have moments of brilliance and think I’ve got it figured out followed by many not so good shots. That’s golf for most of us. 🙂 I hope you get a chance to try it again, and yes lessons will help!

  • Aaron

    This is cool to hear about your first time on the course. Like other commenters here, I’ve played much of my life and was stricken by the “bug” (as they call it) early on. It’s an excellent way to get outside, and get some exercise (though not as strenuous as many sports).

    When we do scrambles, the most teams can take on a hole is a bogey. This speeds things up quite a bit and helps things move along. Surprised they gave you all so many whacks at it! 🙂

    It’s a game you can play for a long time. Hope you stick with it (agree about the money – but there are many ways to save through coupons / other offers).

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